I spent 20 minutes on the phone today BEGGING my aunt to come make the trip with us to Carowinds next week. My 8 year old niece is coming into town and my parents and I are taking her. Backing up 3 years ago, my aunt had back surgery and we haven't been going because of this, but interesting enough, she wanted to go this year, but we went to Wicked instead.

She's still extremely worried about going on roller coasters and she's been my ride buddy since I was a kid. Is it too soon for her to go and enjoy a visit and ride the rides? She's 54 years old and a thrill seeker like me and my niece is a dare devil herself. I am just hoping it won't be a mistake for her to go and have something happen.

She needs to ask her doctors about this. It may not be too soon...it may be.

Only they know. If there is ANY doubt, don't do it. Rides are fun, but they are not worth risking one's future for.

She should talk to her physician.

And even if she can't ride, she could still go if she wants. One can go to parks and ride nothing and still have fun. I know...I've had to do that more times than once in my life, and still I went...

My Dad has been over 300 lbs. now for close to 15 years, and even though he walks with a cane, he still goes to parks, and even though he can't ride anything, he still has a great time.

Oh and my Dad has lost over 100 lbs. in the last 1 1/2 years, bringing him down to 300. I am really proud of him.

That is awesome Tom. Kudos to your father!